fall in love with love

To quote remy de gourmont, the state of being in love with love: "men start with love, end with falling in love with women; women start with men, end with falling in love."

www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-science-of-romance-why-we-love/

I guess that's the situation I live because of the poems. and unfortunately a woman benefits from it. However, I just fell in love with the poems. Or did I fall in love with you.

People who are in this state always fall in love, and when they reach the person they love, they realize that they are not actually in love with him, but that they are in love with this feeling called love. People come and go, the love inside them burns because what they're looking for is just an object where they can pour the love inside them.

Necip Fazıl explained this very well in his expected poem: neither the patient waits for the morning, nor the grave for the fresh dead. nor the devil, a sin, as I wait for you. I don't want you to come, I found you in your absence; leave your shadow in my delusion, don't come, what's the use now?

philosophy of divan literature. The situation of the person who is platonic for years and quits when he gets it. The state of not being able to have a long-term relationship with anyone, but somehow loving them all. Don't be the person called "you don't get smart".. also (: if i love you are the excuse)

www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201709/why-do-we-fall-in-love

nietzsche says; “People only expect to be loved for their personal satisfaction. There is no pure love in their hearts. Love is based on self-interest. Love is just a consolation. It is an obstacle to personal growth.”